Published
January 06, 2011
If you are new to the school where you child has just been accepted, you may think that the school functions like a well-oiled machine with little help from outside. Nothing could be further from the truth. Your help and support as a parent is essential and, indeed, expected. Let's look at some ways in which we parents can contribute time, talent and treasure to our children's schools.
1. Support your school financially.
Depending on where you live and what your schedule is like , supporting the school financially may be all that you can do. If you have the means to make a significant gift, then contact the development office to see how best to use your munificence. Leadership gifts are critical to any school's fund raising success. In any case give what you can. Gifts from parents are an important source of funding for most private schools.
2. Be a class parent.
Primary schools in particular will appreciate help with all sorts of things. You will be worth your weight in gold if you are the kind of parent who simply does what she is asked to do faithfully and without interfering with the teacher or children. Communicating with the other parents and getting them organized to do whatever the class needs done is part of the
role of the ideal class parent. Chaperoning field trips and walks might also be part of your volunteer work. Class parents are especially important these days because so many parents work. If you can help...
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Published
September 08, 2010
It's a big step sending your darling off to private school. She will probably survive the transition just fine. But how about you? How will you restrain yourself and avoid being an over-protective or helicopter parent? Let's look at how to cope with private school at four grade levels.
Preschool
When you send your baby off to preschool or nursery school, you will go through all kinds of angst. Especially if she's your first child. Or only child. You can offset much of the worry by selecting your preschool or nursery school carefully. The best schools will be hard to get into. Places will be limited. But once she's accepted, then determine how you can be helpful without getting in the way. Most schools will welcome assistance with everything from class activities to fund raising. The key is to stay involved as a team player rather than as the leader which you are probably accustomed to being.
Elementary School
This is where things begin to get interesting from a parenting perspective. Why? Because the elementary years are the time when most children learn those core skills which cast the die for a lifetime of learning. If you have been serious about parenting, you taught your child to read ages ago. Probably when she was two or three years old. You limited her television watching and video games so that she developed her imagination and ability to experience situations vicariously. That worked well in your home. But now she is surrounded by children raised...
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Published
July 05, 2010
Extracurricular activities are exactly that, extras, right? Unfortunately, in these tough economic times that is very often the case in public schools. Faced with declining tax revenues, public schools have had to make some very heavy cuts in their budgets. It's difficult to justify cutting teachers and course offerings. So, the 'extras' have to be cut. Extras in the public school world include extracurricular activities such as a band or orchestra as well as clubs and other activities.
In private schools extracurricular activities are an integral part of the school's offerings. Solid academics, a variety of athletic programs and an assortment of extracurricular activities are considered essential to the way a private school works.
Put another way, you cannot educate a child solely by teaching her academic subjects such as math and science. There's more to education than that. That's where sports and extracurricular activities come in. They allow your child to grow. They allow her to be stimulated by new ideas and ways of thinking. They give her a sense of accomplishment and encourage team spirit. These are all excellent lessons she needs to learn in order to be a successful adult.
Let's look at a couple of schools to get an idea of the rich array of choices your child will encounter at private school. Incidentally, it doesn't matter too much whether the private school you are considering is a day school or a boarding school. Either type of private school will offer more extracurricular activities than you can imagine....
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Published
November 08, 2008
Private schools have their own jargon just like any activity or affinity group has. Some of the terms which you will encounter come to us from England where private or public schools as they call them have been around for centuries. That's why you will see words you know with meaning you weren't expecting.
Here are some of the more common terms you are likely to encounter as you explore private schools.
Crew
Crew is the ancient sport of rowing. Rowing in shells is very popular in many private schools. Crew is offered in the fall and spring. Schools participate in regional and international competitions called regattas. Events like
The Head of the Charles and
Henley draw rowers from all over the world.
Dorm Master
If the term sounds a bit scary, it is actually quite the opposite. A dorm master is a teacher who is in charge of and supervises a residential house of boarding school students. He or she in many ways becomes a surrogate parent providing stability and guidance for the mercurial adolescents in his care.
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Published
July 09, 2008
Athletic programs in private schools are an integral part of school life. They are not 'optional as they often are in public schools. Why is that? Because in most private schools sports teach students many lessons about team work and competition. The physical exercise component is an important ingredient as well. Private schools teach their students to enjoy exercise and to excel in an athletic activity of their choice.
The result is that most private schools have simply amazing sports facilities and atheltic programs. You will find schools which have their own golf courses, riding stables, crew facilities, hockey arenas, olympic sized swimming pools, as well as the more common football, baseball and soccer fields.
Besides the intramural sports which are played within the school itself, many schools offer varsity programs in which teams compete with other private schools in well-established leagues. The more popular sports will offer many sections so that everyone who wants to participate can do so.
Private school teachers are expected to 'coach' a sport or an activity. Consequently you will find the Latin teacher showing students the fine points of archery. In addition most schools hire a professional coaches for the primary and speciality sports such as riding, football, swimming and so on. Schools also have qualified medical and para-medical staff available in case of the inevitable accidents.
Sports in private schools are part of an integrated, balanced approach to teaching students. That approach balances academics with exercise and personal growth. It follows the old classical philosophy of...
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Published
April 15, 2013
Here are a dozen or so girls' schools' public thoughts about themselves and their missions.
Make Summer a Special Time!
If you have children in private school, then you are most likely looking at three months, perhaps even longer, which you must fill with activities of one kind or another during the long summer break.
Are You Liable?
Is your DEL key about to get gaveled? It doesn't matter whether you teach in a public or private school setting. You expose yourself to legal risks every single day on the job.
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What goes on in private schools
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About Private Schools (22)
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Why Private School?
Is private school right for your child? Learn about the things you should consider and the unique benefits of a private school education.
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Private and Public Schools Compared
This table sets out the basic characteristics of private and public schools so that you can compare them.
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The Rumors About Private School are True
What is private school really like? Is there any truth to the rumors you keep hearing? Let's find out.
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You Won't Find....
You won't find several things in private schools which you will find in public schools.
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A Timeline of Private School Events and History
What was the first private school? What's the oldest school? What are some of the educational philosophies commonly found? Some answers here.
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Why Do Private Schools Not Have To Teach To The Test?
Private schools don't have to teach to the test because they do not accept public funds.
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What's Happened to Catholic Education?
Schools are closing. Student populations declining. Why? Here are some answers.
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Why You Won't Find Cheating in Private Schools
Strict codes of conduct are one reason why cheating in private schools is not a major issue. Not teaching to the test is another.
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What's a Private School?
Is a private school the same thing as an independent school?
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10 Misconceptions About Private Schools
There are a lot of misconceptions about private schools. This is probably because private schools are indeed private.
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5 Things Not To Like About Private School
What are the five things critics like the least about private schools? Start with the fact that everybody who goes to private school is rich. Or are they?
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How Diverse Are Private Schools?
Decades ago private schools could have been accused of being elitist. You had to have money to attend. The student populations were fairly homogeneous. Fortunately that has changed.
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Being an Expat and Educating Your Children Abroad
If you have the chance to move overseas, don't worry about educating your children. You have several options.
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Which School Do Malia and Sasha Obama Attend?
Many famous children have attended private schools. Here is a sampling of schools and the famous folk who graced their hallowed halls.
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Reviews: Gossip Girl and NYC Prep
Two television series about private schools received a certain amount of buzz. Gossip Girl aired on CW. NYC Prep was on Bravo.
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Books About Private School
What's private school really like? Find out from people who have been there.
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What's Being Taught?
What curricula do private schools follow? Who accredits private schools? What kind of standards prevail? More here.
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DVDs About Private Schools
While it is not a long list, movies set in private schools include several classics such as the Harry Potter series and Dead Poets Society.
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Is Your Grandchild Going Away to Private School?
There are several ways in which you can stay connected with your beloved grandchild.
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Computers in Private School
Some schools require you to purchase a laptop as part of their book fee. Others let you bring your own computer.
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What's an Independent School?
A look at the different names and types of private schools.
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Books for Educators and Parents
These titles have been recommended by other educators. Add these to your vacation reading. Enjoy.
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Kinds of Schools (23)
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Top Roman Catholic Boarding Schools
These Roman Catholic boarding schools offer good value, great educations and a faith-based community experience.
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For Profit vs Not for Profit Schools
What are the advantages and/or disadvantages of a for profit versus a not for profit school? Is one kind of school better than the other?
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Waldorf Schools
Waldorf schools offer a well thought out approach to K-12 education.
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Teaching Boys
Why teach boys in a single sex setting? The answer to this question and several others here.
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Schools for Gifted Children
Teaching gifted children requires deft handling. These children need intellectual and sensory stimulation. But they also need guidance and careful nurturing so that they grow up handling their special gifts and themselves appropriately.
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You Know You Are in a Montessori School When....
Montessori classrooms are different from the classrooms in conventional schools. Here's what to look for.
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Special Needs Schools
Do you think your son has a learning disability? Not sure what to do? A special needs school might be the way to go.
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5 Facts About Progressive Schools
Progressive schools are different from traditional schools. These five facts highlight some of those differences.
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Why Waldorf?
Vicki Larson provides detailed answers to my questions about Waldorf schools.
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The Oldest Schools
The oldest American private school is Collegiate School in Manhattan founded in 1628.
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Progressive Schools
Progressive schools have been around since the early 1900's. Some educators think that progressives are rebels against traditional rote learning. The progressive educators like to think of themselves as reformers. The truth is somewhere in the middle.
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Hockey Schools
Got an aspiring hockey player in your family? Many American private schools enjoy a great reputation for excellent hockey teams as well as superb academics.
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Military Schools
Military schools offer structure and discipline as well as a top-notch education.
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Lab Schools
What is a lab school? It's a K-12 school or school with some variation of those grades which is operated by a university or college.
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You Know You Are in a Progressive School When...
In many ways progressive schools epitomize the uniqueness of the genre of K-12 education known as private or independent schools.
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Semester Schools
A semester school allows you to experience new surroundings, new environments, different ways of life and much more.
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Religious Schools
Religion is important to you. You want your children to be educated in a school where your religion matters.
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Montessori Schools
Montessori schools are popular world-wide with parents of children in the primary grades.
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International Schools
Sending your children to an international school might make sense if you plan on being in the U.S. only for a few years.
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Alternative Schools
Sometimes a regular school is not the right fit for a child. Perhaps she needs an alternative school.
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Schools with Non-traditional Approaches
Categorizing schools is not a neat process. But there are several educational approaches and philosophies offer some alternatives to traditional schools. Here are some pros and cons about alternative schools.
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Schools For The Arts
Schools for the artistically gifted child are in short supply.
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Classical Christian Schools
Classical Christian schools combine strict adherence to Christian beliefs with classical principles of education.
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Directories (8)
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Seattle Area Schools
The Seattle area is home to many fine private schools as well as to major companies such as Microsoft, Boeing and Starbucks.
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Boston Area Schools
The metropolitan Boston area offers a wide range of academic and cultural activities. Just as impressive is the area's selection of private schools.
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Directories
A list of directories of private and independent schools.
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National Associations
As you research schools, check the national and state associations. Is the school you are considering a member? If not, why not?
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Regional Associations
Some states do not have their own private school associations. Schools band together across state lines forming regional associations. These associations have the same purpose as state associations. More here.
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Guides To Private Schools
Do you prefer to peruse a book rather than going online to find private schools? If so, there are some excellent guides to private schools available.
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State Associations
Do the schools you are researching belong to state independent school associations? If not, find out why not!
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Litchfield County Schools
Litchfield County, Connecticut, is home to a couple of dozen excellent schools catering to just about every need. The setting about 90 miles north of New York City is convenient to one of the largest metropolitan areas in the world.
Note: Data has been gathered from the Dept. of Education, schools, and commercial data sources.