Admissions - The Acceptance Letter

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Admissions - The Acceptance Letter
The desired result of taking the admissions test, visiting schools and submitting all that paperwork is to receive an acceptance letter. Here's how to handle this part of the admissions process.
The final step in the process of choosing a private school is dealing with the acceptance letter. These letters are typically mailed in mid-March for schools which have a January 31 (or thereabouts) deadline for applications. If the school has rolling admissions, you will receive your acceptance letter or an offer of a place at the school once your admissions file is completed and a decision has been made.
 
What to do if you have been accepted by your first choice school
 
First of all, congratulations! You did it! Next step: read the letter carefully and reply before the deadline. If you don't accept the offer of a place by the deadline, the school will give your place to one of the applicants on their waitlist. If you have questions or need more information, contact the school without delay. Schools will give you a date by which you must accept or refuse the offer of admission. Acceptance requires the return of the acceptance forms together with payment of a deposit for next year's tuition. That usually amounts to 10% of the fees. So, for example, if next year's tuition is $25,000, you will need to return the acceptance forms with a payment of $2,500. If you applied for financial aid, you will also receive a letter detailing the terms of your financial aid package.
 
Educational consultant Ann Dolin explains how admissions works.
 
 
If you have been accepted by several schools
 
That's a wonderful outcome to your private school search process. Review the acceptances with your son or daughter and go with the school which is the best fit. The goal always is to find a school where your child will be happy. Schools will give you a date by which you must accept or refuse the offer of admission. Observe those deadlines scrupulously.
 
Remember that your acceptance requires the return of the acceptance forms together with payment of a deposit for next year's tuition.As noted above, that is usually 10% of the fees. If you applied for financial aid, you will also have received a letter detailing the terms of your financial aid package.
 
It is very important to read all the materials which the schools send you and deal with them immediately. You have a limited window of opportunity in which to respond. If, for some reason, you do not reply to the acceptance letter, the school will most likely give away your child's place.
 
What if the financial aid package is not enough?
 
It is possible that the financial aid award letter will contain some perplexing news. You may have required $15,000 in aid and the school is only offering $10,000. What are your options? Discuss your situation with the school. A full and frank discussion of the matter will be the first step to finding a solution. Don't delay. And don't be embarrassed about asking for more help especially if your circumstances have changed since you filed your financial aid forms.
 
If you were rejected
 
The rejection letter will be just that.  The envelope from the school will be disappointingly thin. The school will inform you politely that you didn't make it. There is no recourse. Now, if all the schools to which you applied rejected you, that's a different matter. I recommend that you then start looking for schools with rolling admissions which have places. Again, time is of the essence. Don't delay.
 
This video explains how to handle being rejected.
 
 
If you were waitlisted
 
It's possible that the school thought you were a good fit but just not quite good enough to make the first cut of acceptances. But they aren't sure whether everybody they accepted will actually decide to attend their school. So what they do then is to put qualified applicants on a waitlist. The way that works is that sometime in April after the school finds out who is coming and who is not, they will then offer places to applicants they have on their waitlist. Basically the school is hedging its bets.
 
What should you do? Discuss your options with your educational consultant. It might make sense to accept one of the other offers you have. The downside to that is that if the school where you are waitlisted finally does offer you a place, you will forfeit the deposit already paid to the school you were not waitlisted at.
 
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