Selecting the right private school is one of the most important decisions a family can make. In this revised 2025 edition of our guide, we walk you through a structured process to identify, evaluate and select a private school—incorporating the latest tuition data, enrollment trends, program updates and expert perspectives.
1. Set your priorities: academics, values, and logisticsStart by clarifying what matters most to your family—and students. Are you seeking rigorous academics, a STEM-strong program, small class sizes, a religious orientation, or robust arts/athletics? Do you need after-school care, transportation or boarding options? Your definition of “fit” will shape your school search.
For example, one parent tells us: “We wanted a school where our daughter would experience not just strong math and science, but a community that aligned with our values.” That combination helped them narrow from dozens of options to three finalists.
As you set priorities ask:
What grade levels does the school serve (K-12, middle + high, boarding)?
Is the school co-educational, single-gender, day or boarding?
What student-teacher ratios and class sizes can you anticipate?
What support services (learning differences, ADD/ADHD, ESL) are offered?
What is the cultural ethos and parent-community involvement like?
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