Choosing Schools

A Guide to Day vs. Boarding School: Which Is Right for Your Family?

Choosing the right private school is a major decision—it influences not only your child’s education but your family’s daily life, finances, and long-term goals. One of the most important choices is whether to enroll in a day school or a boarding school.

Both models offer outstanding academics and personalized attention, but they differ in structure, lifestyle, and the independence they foster. Understanding these differences can help you make the best decision for your family.

What Is a Day School?

Day schools are private institutions where students attend during the day and return home in the evening. They can be coeducational or single-sex, secular or religious, and span from preschool through grade 12.

Key Benefits

• Daily family interaction. Students live at home, allowing for close involvement in family routines and values.

• Lower cost. Without room and board, day schools are typically less expensive than boarding schools.

• Local convenience. Students remain connected to community activities, friendships, and extracurriculars.

Considerations

• Limited after-school supervision. Parents often manage homework, time, and transportation.

• Less immersion. Students may not experience as much of the school community culture outside of regular hours.

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Independent Schools in Africa

About to be posted to a major city in Africa? Got questions about schools for your kids?

We receive lots of inquiries from parents asking about private schools in Africa. Most of the time parents want information about schools, tuition fees, available places, and so on.

Now, if you're an expat looking for schools, not to worry! Egypt, Morocco, Tunisia, South Africa, Kenya, and all the other African nations have plenty of private schools to choose from. Of course, it stands to reason that the bugger the city, the more schools it will have. I've listed some of the schools that teach American, British, Canadian, Italian, French, and German curricula.

So, whether you are being posted to Cairo or Tunis, you will be able to find a school that follows the curriculum your kids would have had back home. That way, once your tour of duty is over, your kids will be right up to speed when you get back home.

I was an expat! So, I speak from my own experience as an expat whose daughter attended a private high school in The Bahamas. While obviously there were subtle differences in the curriculum and the way it was taught, she adjusted well. Indeed, she subsequently attended two distinguished universities and earned a master's degree.

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Making the Right Choice

Choosing the right educational path for your child is one of the most significant decisions you'll make as a parent. I have compiled this guide to help you navigate the complex, often confusing, world of private school education. I want you to understand why it might be the right choice for your family. I'll show you how to weigh the pros and cons of boarding schools versus day schools. Then, we'll identify the key factors that should influence your decision. Drawing from my years of experience in the private education sector, we'll explore real-world scenarios, expert insights, and practical advice to empower you in making this crucial choice.

Whether you're just beginning to consider private school or are deep into the selection process, this booklet will provide you with the tools and knowledge to make an informed decision that aligns with your family's values and your child's needs and requirements.

Chapter 1
7 Reasons Why Private School May Be The Right Choice
As parents, we all want the best for our children, especially when it comes to their education. Many of us who choose private schools share common goals: we want our children to think critically, analyze information, and read widely. My late wife and I, for instance, wanted to stretch our girls academically, which led us to private school. Our backgrounds - her passion for literature and languages and my career in church music - shaped our educational priorities. Likewise, your own personal

7 Reasons Why Private School May Be The Right Choice

We parents who send our children to private school have a lot in common.

• Most of us want our children to think critically, analyze information, and read widely.
• For example, Nancy and I wanted to stretch our girls academically. That's why we sent them off to private school.
• Those poor kids never stood a chance because my late wife read to her daughters almost from birth.

Nancy was a voracious reader. She read real books made out of paper, not books on an iPad or Kindle.

• She had earned an honors degree in French language and literature and Spanish language and literature.
• She attended private schools in New York City. Academic excellence was simply a given from her point of view.

I was passionate about music and made a career in church music as an organist and choir director.

• I mention these facts about us because I know your upbringing and educational experiences have shaped you and your views.
• Those will shape how you plan your child's schooling at every level.

Many of us also have public schools that are considered very good or excellent.

• In our case, we were fortunate to have excellent public schools.
• However, we didn't like the large class sizes and the limited curriculum that they offered.
• So those were among the reasons we started looking for other options

Mistakes Everybody Makes When Choosing Private Schools

Because you and I are not professional educational consultants with an intimate knowledge of private schools, we often waste time and make mistakes as we search for a private school for our children.

• For this article, we will be discussing private K-12 schools that do not focus on special requirements, such as therapeutic schools and schools for students with acute special needs.
• Read When Should You Consider A Therapeutic School? and When Should You Consider A Special Needs School? for suggestions about choosing those schools.

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Here are some of the pitfalls you and I tend to encounter as we look at private schools.

1. Only looking at ranks
2. Thinking you can't afford it
3. Waiting until the last minute to submit applications
4. Thinking that schools are elitist
5. Not visiting schools
6. Not preparing adequately for the standardized admissions tests
7. Not hiring an educational consultant

1. Only looking at ranks.

I know what you're thinking. You want your daughter to attend a highly-rated school, the best school, a top-ranked school.

• Trust me. I get it. I wanted the same things for my daughters.
• However, here's the hard truth: rankings have very little to do with finding the best private school for your child.
• Find schools that fit your requirements and her needs as best as possible.
• You are looking for schools that fit