Perhaps you are considering homeschooling. While homeschooling is doable, the onus is on you to track everything and make sure all the paperwork is completed and submitted and approved by local and state authorities. It's a lot of work. Indeed it is a full-time job. Now contrast that with the kind of life and activities which your child can have at private school as sown in this video.
Here are the facts. You decide.
Decades ago you might have been able to make a case that some - but certainly not all - private schools were just for the children of privileged, wealthy families. Interestingly enough, most of the top American private schools started with very altruistic motives and aspirations. Many of them were founded in the 18th and 19th centuries by visionary benefactors who were committed to creating a better society populated with skilled citizens who could think and reason.
Privilege and wealth were rarely factors in establishing those early schools as you will see in this short history of The Milton Hershey School. Located in Hershey, Pennsylvania, The Milton Hershey School was founded in 1909 with a few students from poor families. It now serves over 1,800 students. The School is funded by a trust established by Milton S. Hershey and his wife Catherine.
In the 21st century the pendulum has swung back to those idealistic roots. There's hardly a private school out there which doesn't have diversity as one of its top priorities. That means schools now proactively seek out applicants from every quarter of society. Not just the kids whose folks have a country club membership. Kids from families of very modest means. Generous financial aid packages ensure that a private school education is affordable and within reach.
2. Private schools offer all kinds of educational philosophies.
On the other hand, private schools can teach anything they want, any way they want. So, for example, if you want a religious component to your child's education, you will be able to have that in a private school. Each private school is unique with only a couple of exceptions. The Cristo Rey and the Carden schools, for example, will offer pretty much the same curriculum and teaching approach across all their schools. Otherwise, private schools are unique and individual in their approaches to curriculum and how they teach it. That uniqueness is just part of private schools' DNA.
You will be able to choose from several approaches to early childhood education including Montessori, Waldorf, Reggio Emilia and traditional PK-6. Montessori is a very popular approach for teaching preschool and primary age children. The movement was started in Rome by a visionary medical doctor by the name of Maria Montessori. She worked with the poorest children in the ghettos of Rome because she believed that they could be educated and shown how to build a successful life with that education. Dr. Montessori's philosophy was to "Follow the child". She believed that children should be allowed to figure things out with a minimum of guidance and interference from a teacher. Developing a child's imagination, creativity and self-reliance were important objectives for Dr. Montessori.
The problem with public school budgets is that the so-called extras or non-essential programs are the first to be deleted from the budget. Unfortunately sports and extracurricular activities fall into the broad category of non-essential programs. Private schools consider sports to be an integral, indispensable part of their educational offerings. Sports are generally compulsory for all students. Everybody participates in some athletic activity. It may not be at the varsity level but it will be an athletic activity nonetheless.
Private schools take the view that sports, extracurriculars and academics are essential to developing a balanced approach to education. Playing on an intramural team or even a varsity team sharpens young people. Same thing with singing in a chorus or being in a play. Extracurricular activities allow your child to explore things which appeal to her. They develop poise, confidence, leadership and teamwork skills.
I have saved the best rumor for the last. Over the past decade in particular one school after another has stepped up to the plate and put substantial amounts of money on the line for financial aid. They want a diverse student body. They know that if they just leave the doors open to only those who can afford, then their applicant pool will be limited.
Some people can write a check for a year's tuition and never miss it. But with private school tuitions in the $20,000 to $30,000 range for day school and more than $50,000 for boarding school, the rest of us have to be creative.
You have several options available to you.
- Ask about financial aid. Each school has its own financial aid program. Don't assume that the programs are similar.
- Find out whether your child is eligible for a scholarship because of a company or affinity group you belong to.
- Structure your payments to fit your budget by using a tuition payment plan.
- Borrow the funds.
- Consider sending your child to a free school.