Admissions 101

What follows is a fictional interview. I wrote it to illustrate why some parents chose a specific kind of high school education for their child. The account is fictional to the extent that the parents I am interviewing in this article do not exist per se. However, the scenarios, facts, and questions about private schools are ones that I have dealt with countless times over the years. They are real. Hopefully, you will find the answers in this interview both helpful and useful.

Helen, why did you consider sending your child to a boarding school?

My husband and I thought about sending our daughter to boarding school. Convincing her that boarding school would be the best option was a major challenge. However, with the help of our educational consultant and a couple of close friends whose children currently attend boarding school in Vermont, we were able to show her the incredible value a boarding school education offers.

What clinched the deal was the vast array of extracurricular activities which the schools we visited offered. We live in a very affluent area of Connecticut. The public schools are highly rated. But honestly, they offered fewer extracurricular activities than most of the boarding schools we reviewed. Our daughter is an avid swimmer and field hockey enthusiast. The athletic facilities and grounds at most of the schools we visited were superb. They contained state-of-the-art equipment with professional athletic staff supervising their programs. That was very reassuring to us. Our

Beginning the school search process is a lot of fun. Those beautiful photographs of tree-lined campuses and sports activities, the candid shots of classroom scenes portraying kind, patient teachers, the history of the school and its many accomplishments over the years, as well as all those famous graduates - it is all very impressive. So, you list the schools you want to examine in greater detail. At this point in your school search process, the question that I posed in the title of this article begins to surface.

I can hear you wondering how you will compare schools objectively when the costs seem so different from one school to the next. One boarding school charges $56,000 for tuition, room and board, while another school in the same state lists its tuition, room and board as $28,000. Why do some schools cost so much and some cost so little?

Boarding schools

Your costs for schools that charge the most for their services range from $45,000 to $65,000. These schools are residential schools or what we commonly call boarding schools. As well as charging for tuition and related expenses, these schools must bill for room and board. You will notice that some schools offer two types of boarding arrangements. One is the customary seven-day-a-week boarding; the other is a five-day boarding scheme where the students reside at the school during the week and return home on the weekends. The five-day boarding scheme costs less than the seven-day version. It

Parents have many reasons for deciding to take their children out of public school and enroll them in private school. This circumstance can happen at any stage of your child's education. You could face this issue as early as nursery school or as late as high school, or even somewhere in between.

A Real Situation

Recently, I spoke with a mother who had taken her son out of a Montessori school and put him in the local public school. The problem with the Montessori school was the teacher. The public school worked fine for one year. Her child loved his new teacher, who seemed to love her children. Ironically, the public school teacher did a better job following the child than the Montessori teacher did. Considering that following the child was one of Dr. Maria Montessori's principal tenets, you would have thought the Montessori teacher could have gotten that right. In any case, his mother reported that they had one good year. Her son was happy. The teacher was delighted. All was going well. Unfortunately, things began to unravel during the second year, largely due to an inflexible teacher who expected all the children in her rather large class of 25 first graders to march in lockstep.

Against that backdrop, let's you and I explore a couple of typical scenarios where a change of schools might be the only answer for your child.

Your child does not fit in.

So, you have determined that your child does not

10 Things To Do Before You Graduate

As you journey through high school, it's easy to get caught up in the daily routine of classes, homework, and extracurricular activities. However, there are certain experiences and skills that can greatly enhance your educational experience and prepare you for success beyond graduation.

Have you seen some of those lists with titles like 50 Things You Must Do Before You Graduate From College?

• I like the idea of lists. It keeps me focused. However, some of those lists I read made me wonder what on earth they were thinking.
• With tuition and fees running $80,000 or more at a private college, I thought that most of the items were a total waste of time and effort.
• Consequently, I offer the following 10 worthwhile things to do before you graduate from private school.

1. Earn strong SAT scores.

This assumes that you are attending a school that prepares you for the SAT, one of the standardized tests that you take as part of getting admitted to college.

• The SAT, just like other standardized tests, tests your knowledge gained over several years.
• While you can certainly take a couple of practice teststo get a feel for the test and work to the clock, really, the best preparation for the SAT is your day-by-day conscientious learning.
• You cannot cram preparation for the SAT.

This video offers some strategies for critical reading.